Coping with birthparent loss in adopted children

Background: Relationships among adopted children's appraisals of birthparent loss, their coping strategies for managing such loss, and child and parent reports of child adjustment were investigated within the context of a stress and coping model of adoption adjustment. Methods: Eighty‐two 8–12‐year‐old adopted children and one of their parents participated. Children completed questionnaires assessing their negative affect about birthparent loss, their curiosity about birthparents, their use of coping strategies to manage birthparent‐related distress, and their levels of depression, anxiety, and global self‐worth. Parents reported on children's externalizing and internalizing behavior problems and social competence. Results: Children who reported higher levels of negative affect about birthparent loss also reported higher levels of depression and lower self‐worth. Curiosity about birthparents predicted parent‐rated externalizing behavior. Behavioral avoidant coping was associated with greater self‐reported anxiety and parent‐rated externalizing behavior, whereas problem solving coping was associated with increased parent‐rated social competence. Conclusions: The findings, though limited by issues of measurement and sampling, add to the knowledge base regarding adopted children's appraisal and coping behaviors, and provide partial support for a stress and coping model of adopted children's adjustment.