Proper proximality among various families of groups

In this paper, the notion of proper proximality (introduced by Boutonnet, Ioana, and Peterson [Ann. Sci. Éc. Norm. Supér. (4) 54 (2021), 445–482]) is studied and classified in various families of groups. We show that if a group acts non-elementarily by isometries on a tree such that, for any two edges, the intersection of their edge stabilizers is finite, then G is properly proximal. We show that the wreath product G\wr H is properly proximal if and only if H is non-amenable. We then completely classify proper proximality among graph products of non-trivial groups. Our results generalize the recent work of Duchesne, Tucker-Drob, and Wesolek classifying inner amenability for these families of groups. Our results also recover some rigidity results associated to the group von Neumann algebras by virtue of being properly proximal. A key idea in the proofs of our theorems is a technique to upgrade from relative proper proximality using computations in the double dual of the small at infinity boundary.