The Politics of Intimacy: Costs and Benefits Determining Disclosure Intimacy in Male-Female Dyads

A review of previous research suggested a three-way interaction effect between gender of discloser, locus of evaluation of discloser and partner in influencing disclosure intimacy. A social exchange model predicted the specific structure of the interaction. Application of the model yielded four distinct theoretical intimacy investment levels. Fifty five males and fifty-five females responded to the locus of evaluation questionnaire and completed the Davis (1976) acquaintance exercise in male-female dyads. Using a median-split method, participants were labelled as internal or external evaluators. Results provided support for the predicted interaction effect and for the social exchange model. Results are discussed in terms of social exchange theory and the costs and benefits of intimacy, power and their intersection in the development of close relationships between women and men.