On the asymmetry of stars at infinity

Given a bordified space, Karlsson defines an incidence geometry of stars at infinity. These stars and their incidence are closely related to well-understood objects when the space is hyperbolic, CAT(0), or a bounded convex domain with the Hilbert metric. A question stemming from Karlsson's original paper was whether or not the relation of one boundary point being included in a star of another boundary point is symmetric. This paper provides an example demonstrating that this relation in the star boundary of the three-tree Diestel-Leader graph DL3(q) is not symmetric. In doing so, some interesting bounds on distance in Diestel-Leader graphs are utilized.