Welcome to Wherever We Are A Memoir of Family, Caregiving, and Redemption

Winner of the 2022 Memoir Prize for Books - Caregiving category​ ESS Public Sociology Award​ Recommended Book in Domestic Violence by DomesticShelters.org How do you go about caregiving for an ill and elderly parent with a lifelong history of abuse and control, intertwined with expressions of intens...

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Fathers and daughters United States
Parent and adult child United States
title Welcome to Wherever We Are A Memoir of Family, Caregiving, and Redemption
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Adult child abuse victims United States
Adult children of aging parents United States
Aging parents Care United States
Fathers and daughters United States
Parent and adult child United States
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