Teenage marriage coping with reality
Discusses the realities of teenage marriage, including such problems as lack of money, in-law relationships, jealousy, and spousal abuse. Includes quotes from teenage couples and suggestions for making relationships work.
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Buena Park, Calif.
Morning Glory Press
1988
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FOREWORD 11
PREFACE 13
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS 17
INTRODUCTION 20
1. MARRIAGE—IS IT FOR YOU? 23
Facts about teenage marriage; Falling in love; Bonnie—married
at 16; Importance of school; Should pregnancy mean marriage?
Early marriage not recommended; Making marriage last; Trend
toward “living together”; Is marriage forever?
2. I’LL FIND MY TRUE LOVE 37
Choosing a marriage partner; Agreement on expectations;
Determination to succeed is important; Don’t rush marriage;
Similar interests help; Marriage won’t solve family problems;
Similar family backgrounds help; Possible problem areas
3. CHANGES.. .CHANGES...
AND MORE CHANGES 49
Two kinds of changes; Teenagers change faster; Changes after
marriage; Who picks up the socks? His family—her family:
always different; Loneliness versus privacy; Change is inevitable
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Teenage Marriage.
4. CREATIVE COMMUNICATION 57
Mixed messages cause problems; If he won’t talk; Reasons for
not talking; Plan time to talk; Handling arguments; Questions
to ask yourself; Dealing with anger; ‘‘Wish list” approach;
Different family scripts
5. SEX BEGINS IN THE KITCHEN 71
Effect of total relationship; How important is sex? Talk and
compromise are essential; Conflict of expectations; Other
problems with sex; Good relationship takes time; Effects of
guilt feelings; Childbirth and sexual feelings; This, too, will
pass; Sharing baby care helps; Sex is not a competition
6. ROLES—HIS JOB OR HERS? 83
Marriage roles are changing; Two-paycheck marriage preferred;
Shared roles work; Two essentials: paycheck, housework; More
women work today; Problem of housework; Psychologist
suggests retraining; Sharing child care
7. THE BILLS AND BUDGET BLUES 97
Almost no income for some; Importance of job skills; Sharing
money management; Who pays the bills? When a budget is
necessary; Keep track of expenses; Cutting the costs of living;
Making a budget; What about charge cards? Spending plan
should suit you
8. MOVING-IN WITH IN-LAWS 113
It’s hard to live with in-laws; Not enough privacy; Set up
guidelines first; Who does the housework? Different
backgrounds cause problems; Darla and Manuel’s situation;
Moving in with friends
9. CHILD-CREATED COMMOTION 127
Changes start with pregnancy; Marriage relationship is primary;
Is education still important? Satisfying three people’s needs;
Father is full parent too; Helping dad feel capable; Good
parenting takes learning; Grandparents get in the act; What
about money? Another baby? When?
Contents
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10. JEALOUSY—GREEN-EYED MONSTER 141
Marriage survey indicates jealousy; Reasons for jealousy; Lack
of self-esteem; Jealousy related to possessiveness; If only one
feels possessive; Coping with infidelity; If jealousy is severe;
Solving the problem
11. PEOPLE ARE NOT FOR HITTING 153
Problem more severe for women; Battering compared to rape;
Crisis center needed; Which men batter? Three-stage cycle
described; Children affected if Dad hits Mother; Counseling may
help; Characteristics of battered women; Why do they stay?
12. IF IT’S NOT FOREVER 165
It won’t be easy; Immaturity can ruin relationship; Difference
in values may destroy love; His reality is different; Counselor
cautions against quick divorce; Professional counseling might
help; If counseling fails; Grief of divorce; If a child is involved;
Should you try again? The dilemma of step-children
13. DREAMS AND REALITY—MAKING IT WORK 177
She’s pregnant—they marry; Living with parents; Victor walks
out; She’s pregnant again; Briann leaves town; Making a second
start; Finally she can argue; Trust—hard to regain; She’s less
dependent; Explaining to Andrea
APPENDIX 187
I. Scorecard for Predicting Success
of Teenage Marriage 188
II. Marriage Attitude Questionnaire 190
III. Annotated Bibliography 197
IV. Index 205
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