The Push-and-Pull of Frenemies: When and Why Ambivalent Relationships Lead to Helping and Harming

We integrated theories of social exchange and emotional ambivalence to explain how ambivalent relationships influence interpersonally directed helping and harming behaviors. Using multiple methodologies, including a study of student teams, an experiment, and a quasifield study of retail employees, w...

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